Monday, June 29, 2009 Quick Guide answers, "What do I wear to that?"

Summer has finally arrived and with it comes a host of warm weather occasions and wardrobe decisions we have to make - office attire, graduation parties, bridal showers, outdoor charity events, and long, lazy days at the beach. Where does a girl go for advice? The internet can create information overload. Not only are there so many looks and sites to choose from, but is it appropriate for the occasion?

Fret no more, my friends. I recently learned of the Quick Guide on, a new luxury online shopping boutique that offers a one-click solution for finding out what to wear for various occasions, such as my cousin's upcoming baby shower. Once I entered the Quick Guide section of the site, I simply clicked on the Bridal/Baby Shower icon and they showed me all the looks that are appropriate for that type of event. Unsure what cocktail attire means? Click on the Cocktail Attire icon to find out. Other Quick Guide categories include The Working Woman, Beach Attire, Rehearsal Dinner, Great Gift Items, The Pregnant Girl, Formal Attire, and many more.

25Park has all the summer 2009 trends including the gladiator sandal, one shoulder tops, sheer fabrics, sequins, ruffles and scarfs. They carry a variety of ultra chic lines including, Antik Batik, Michael Kors, and Elizabeth and James. In addition to selling women's clothing and accessories, 25Park also offers fashionable kids clothing.

There were so many pieces on the site I loved, such as this yellow Armory Top by Malene Birger.

Unfortunately, the prices don't work with my budget, however, I'll still bookmark the Quick Guide to get outfit ideas I can then translate into something more affordable.

Thursday, April 02, 2009

Wardrobe Essentials

I was recently asked by Mary Marino, creator of The FLASHionista Report what essential pieces I would buy if I were starting with an empty closet. Personally, for me, it would include a lot of Spanx to keep my bum looking round and high. Once that was taken care of, I'd add the following "must haves":

  1. First and foremost...establish a good foundation. A bra that keeps the girls up where they should be is A MUST. Where should they sit? Between your elbow and armpits (closer to armpits) is best. If your breasts are down near your elbows, no top or jacket will lay right and you'll look heavier than you really are.

  2. A chic black trouser in a three season fabric.

  3. A charcoal gray pinstripe trouser.

  4. A pair of tailored jeans to be dressed up and worn with heels.

  5. A pair of casual jeans to wear with flats or European tennis shoes.

  6. Two crisp white button down shirts.

  7. A tote bag in a neutral color.

  8. A clutch purse in a neutral color.

  9. One pair each of black, brown and camel dress pumps (I prefer at least a 3 inch heel as it lifts the behind. Yes, I'm all about the behind.)

  10. A trench coat.

  11. Two great blazers that can be dressed up or down.

  12. A skirt suit or pant suit in black.

  13. A pair of black or dark brown knee high boots.

  14. A nice watch with a neutral band (black leather or gold/silver metal mix).

  15. A little black dress.

  16. One turtleneck, one v-neck and one cardigan sweater in cashmere or merino wool.

  17. Three blouses in sophisticated prints and colors that make your skin glow. The rule is to have three tops to wear with every bottom you own.

  18. A 3/4 length wool coat in a neutral color.

  19. A sturdy umbrella in a neutral color.

  20. Black tights.

  21. Nude fishnets.

Keep in mind, the above items are just the basics - the bare minimum. I would then add onto that with fun creative pieces that speak to my personality.

No matter what you have in your closet, my best advice is to simply LOVE it all. Don't waste your hard-earned money on "almost there's" or "good enough's" because you won't feel good in them and then you won't wear them.

Best of luck!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Nordstrom Recalls Girl’s Shoes Due to Violation of Lead Paint Standard

Many things in life will get in your way. Don't be one of them.

A couple of years ago, I went on a trip with a guy I was dating. We got along quite well so I expected to have a great time. On the second night of our trip, he confessed, "Things don’t seem to be working.” Apparently I offended him earlier in the day when I suggested that wearing his policeman's badge to a party that night may be considered a “buzz kill”. I tried to imagine how he could not see my point. Still not seeing it, I could only apologize and explain that any offense was completely unintentional.

I take responsibility for my actions. I clearly did not put my best foot forward, and should be more careful about what I say and how I say it. In addition to social etiquette, putting your best foot forward also means looking and feeling your best. Studies show that people will form beliefs about your socioeconomic status, your education level, and your desirability within seconds of meeting you based solely on your appearance. And other people aren't the only ones judging you. Think about how YOU feel about yourself when you don't like your appearance. So it's pretty important, don't you think?

I compare dressing well to exercising. Exercise and you feel better. Therefore, you act better. Therefore, you are better. Dress well and you feel better. Therefore, you act better. Therefore, you are better. You can tell when someone feels good in his or her clothes – they act confident, open and friendly. A well-dressed person creates opportunities they would not have had otherwise. Dressing well means simply knowing how to dress your body shape and for your lifestyle.

15 practical tips for dressing your best:

1. Know your body shape. The key to dressing well is creating a look of balanced proportions. For example, if you lack curves, wear tops that broaden the shoulder to create a curvier silhouette.

2. Be mindful (and proud) of your stature. What you wear should be relative to the size of your frame. For example, if you’re a petite 4’11” and wear a full-length coat, you will only look shorter. If you’re a large woman, wearing tiny accessories will make you appear larger.

3. The number on the label does not matter. While there are general sizing guidelines, each designer uses a different fit model; therefore, your size will vary by designer. If it fits properly, it’s your size...period. Accept this and then smile to yourself when someone tells you how great you look.

4. Wear colors that make your skin glow.

5. Establish a relationship with a good tailor. Few people can wear garments straight off the rack. Fit the widest part of your body first and have it tailored to fit the rest of you. A simple alteration can make a world of difference.

6. Shop smart. Have a plan. Know what pieces you already own and build on them. Only buy something that has purpose in your life or completely inspires you. Try everything on and don’t wait until the last minute to shop. If you have a closet filled with clothes but nothing to wear, it is because you haven’t shopped smart.

7. Dress your body the way it is now. I hear this regularly: “I really need your help but I want to lose 15 pounds first.” I promise you will be amazed at how much weight you can “lose” simply by dressing your current body properly. Moreover, looking and feeling better will only motivate you to lose the weight faster.

8. Trust your gut. Friends and family often don’t know any better than you and will only tell you what you want to hear instead of what you should hear. If your gut says "No" while Mom and Sis are saying "Yes", then don't buy it. Hire a professional wardrobe coach for objectivity and expert guidance.

9. It is better to overdress than to under-dress. The act of dressing up shows self-respect as well as respect for those around you. Any person who negatively comments on how dressed up you are does so because they feel like a schmo.

10. Choose quality over quantity. Invest in the key pieces of your wardrobe. Shoes matter. You can be flexible with everything else.

11. Don’t buy into trends. Trends are rarely universal and by definition go out of style quickly. Think wisely before spending your money on them.

12. Less is more. The various parts of your outfit should complement each other, not compete for attention. You can mix and match patterns as long as one takes the lead and the other plays a supporting role.

13. Wear the right undergarments. The importance of wearing the right undergarments cannot be overemphasized. When “the girls” are in proper position, your tops will drape beautifully (and you’ll look thinner!)

14. Attitude helps. If you mistakenly wear something inappropriate, act like you meant it. In other words, “Fake it ‘til you make it.”

15. Believe you’re worth it. Others will notice and care how you present yourself. You should, too.

Follow these tips and you’ll be ready for the job interview or date of your dreams, or at least for whatever comes next in your life.

Best wishes for a smart and successful year ahead!

Monday, March 16, 2009

Is Your Wardrobe Keeping You Unemployed?

If this economy has taught us anything, it is to invest in ourselves rather than in frivolous objects. Investing in how you look is a smart strategy in tough economic times. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the number of unemployed persons increased to 12.5 million in February. With so many people competing for the same jobs, your job search strategy must include your visual appearance in order to gain a distinct advantage over your competitors in this tough job market. When you feel good about your appearance, you will be more confident and composed during an interview. These qualities inspire trust and confidence in potential employers.

First impressions are made within a few seconds after meeting. Based on your visual appearance, your potential employer will either view you as a good fit for the organization or a bad one before you’ve even had a chance to sell your skills. You can use those first few seconds to your advantage by dressing professionally.

As in interviewing, every detail matters when it comes to dressing well. Regardless of the type of position for which you are interviewing, dress up. Dressing up will show that you not only have respect for yourself but also for the organization and for the person with whom you are interviewing.



  • Wear dressy tailored separates or a classic suit in a neutral color, such as black, navy or charcoal grey.

  • Wear a tailored dress shirt and coordinating tie.

  • Wear clean and polished shoes. Women should wear pumps with a heel height where they can walk confidently.

  • Wear a skirt that hits just above, at, or just below the knee.

  • For women, always wear hosiery in a color to match your skin color. Bring an extra pair with you in case you get a snag or a run in them on the way to the interview.

  • Wear clothes that fit properly. A slight alteration can make a big difference in the way a garment lays on your body.

  • Have clean manicured nails.

  • Wear a clean watch with a metal or neutral leather band.

  • For men, match your socks to your pants.

  • Wear a neat professional hairstyle that is kept away from your face.

  • Carry a nice briefcase or portfolio to hold your resume.

  • Carry a conservative leather tote or handbag that coordinates with your outfit.

  • DON’T

  • Wear flashy jewelry, bright colors or bold prints.

  • Wear thick or colorful makeup.

  • Wear a low-cut blouse or short skirt.

  • Wear cologne or perfume.

  • Wear anything with a logo on it.

  • Wear a sports watch.

  • Chew gum or have anything else in your mouth.

  • Smoke before the interview.

Unless you are interviewing for a creative position, it is best to dress conservatively in neutral colors. Since you will likely be asked to attend multiple interviews within a company before you are formally offered a position, be sure to have at least three different tops to wear with each bottom (for men, shirts and coordinating ties in different colors and patterns, and for women, blouses in different colors and prints).

In the end, you want your potential employer to remember your confidence and personality as opposed to your appearance. In an interview scenario, if people remember what you wore it is usually for the wrong reason.